Coaching Leadership Through Role-Playing Games with Joe Lasley | Episode 395

 

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What happens when role-playing games become a leadership development tool?
In this episode we interview Joe, founder of GameNamic Leadership, to explore how tabletop RPGs can unlock transformational learning, reshape team dynamics, and deliver lasting cultural change. From piloting immersive retreats to coaching teams in real time, Joe shares how combining leadership coaching with roleplay doesn’t just gamify learning—it changes how people show up at work.

​Dr. Joe Lasley is an Assistant Professor of Leadership and Organizational Studies at the University of Southern Maine and the Founder of Gamenamic Leadership, where he merges academic rigor with the imaginative power of tabletop role-playing games to transform how individuals and teams learn to lead in the real world. He is an International Coaching Federation certified Leadership Coach, has a Ph.D. in Leadership Studies, ​and degrees in Organizational Psychology, Higher Education Administration, and Organizational Communication.
In academia, Joe designs and teaches courses on leadership ​d​evelopment, systems thinking, organizational​ and group dynamics, with a focus on experiential and transformational learning. He has published peer-reviewed ​a​research on leadership development through role-playing games, led action research projects, and regularly presents at national and international conferences including I​nternational L​eadership A​ssociation, National Communication Association, and N​orth American S​imulation A​nd G​aming A​ssociation.

As a consultant, ​Dr. Joe created LeadRPG, an innovative method that blends leadership ​d​evelopment with tabletop role-playing games to build emotionally intelligent, adaptive leaders​ and creative teams. ​W​ith the LeadRPG Team, he has developed immersive retreats, facilitated custom programs for mission-driven organizations and tech ​l​eaders, and produced game-based toolkits used for leadership coaching, team development, and reflective practice.

With expertise spanning group dynamics, adaptive leadership, and game-based learning, ​Dr. Joe is committed to helping people unlock their potential, co-design shared experiences, and navigate complexity with creativity, purpose, and play.​

Rob is a host and consultant at Professor Game as well as an expert, international speaker and advocate for the use of gamification and games-based solutions, especially in education and learning. He’s also a professor and workshop facilitator for the topics of the podcast and LEGO SERIOUS PLAY (LSP) for top higher education institutions that include EFMD, IE Business School and EBS among others in Europe, America and Asia.

 

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Joe Lasley (00:00)
to hear six months later, a year later, that their leadership team is still functioning differently because of the work that we did. That’s the holy grail, I think.

Rob (00:10)
Yes, so Joe is kind of sharing the holy grail of leadership development on this episode and it is going to be amazing. And if you’re very interested in seeing what gamification can do for you in terms of retention of

Joe Lasley (00:26)
crushing

Rob (00:27)
churn,

please make sure you go and get our free resource using gamification for that can be a game changer as well. So make sure you go to the link, click on that or DM and go for that resource, which I am sure will be very useful for you. And Engagers, welcome back to another episode of the Professor Game Podcast. We are with a very special guest. As always, we have fantastic guests. Today we have Joe, but Joe, before we introduce you, we need to know.

Are you prepared to engage?

Joe Lasley (00:59)
I was born ready.

Rob (01:01)
Let’s do this. Dr. Joe Lasley is an assistant professor of leadership and organizational studies at the University of Southern Maine and the founder of GameNamic Leadership. Did I get that one right? Where he merges academic rigor, of course, as a very good researcher with the imaginative power of tabletop role-playing games to transform individuals and teams. How individuals and teams learn to lead in the real world. He’s in international coaching.

Joe Lasley (01:13)
Yes. ⁓

Rob (01:31)
Federation Certified Leadership Coach as a PhD in Leadership Studies and degrees in Organizational Psychology, Higher Education Administration and Organizational Communication. He teaches leadership development, systems thinking, organizational and group dynamics. And of course he focuses on experiential and transformational learning. He’s published a bunch of research peer reviewed on leadership development through role-playing games, action research projects, regularly presents at national and international conferences, including International Leadership.

Association, National Communication Association, and North American Simulation and Gaming Association. Engagers, you can see why he is on the podcast. But Joe, is there anything that we’re missing from that intro?

Joe Lasley (02:13)
Well, that’s a pretty good list of some of the major things that I’m affiliated with and that type of thing. would say ⁓ currently, I think I’m in the warlock phase of my career where I am trying to channel greater power through ⁓ relationships with the beyond. I’ll say that. And trying to bring the magic ⁓ out into the real world.

So.

Rob (02:45)
It sounds brilliant. So Dr. Joe, there are many different aspects that you are handling and juggling right now. If we were to follow you around for, I don’t know, a day a week, whatever would describe your life a little bit better, how would that look like? What are the kinds of things you’re doing? How would that feel like?

Joe Lasley (03:03)
Well, there’s not really a typical kind of day. There’s lots of different kinds of days and things that I do. ⁓ I live in Maine in the United States with my ⁓ dog buddy. And so when it’s nice out, I might be on the deck in the yard reading or journaling or meditating, those types of things, ⁓ or hiking. I also might be playing games. You know, that’s me ⁓ as a person. And then in my role as an assistant professor, I might be prepping the course, teaching, reading students work.

⁓ or working on some research collaborations, I like to do a lot of collaborative work. So it involves a lot of reaching out to people, having meetings, coming up with ideas, co-creating art, whether it’s research or other initiatives together, those types of things. ⁓ And I teach at all three levels, undergrad, master’s and doctoral students. So sometimes I’m talking with students about work theory and it’s their first time. And other times I’m working with people who are forging ahead to create new knowledge and

⁓ coming up with new ideas and ways of seeing the world of leadership or those types of things. ⁓ And then in my role as a coach or actually sometimes in my role as a professor, I might be doing coaching sessions with students. Leadership coaching and action learning and transformational learning and experiential learning are pretty common ⁓ staples in my teaching, but they’re also things that I do as a consultant. ⁓ I might be

traveling to facilitate for a group ⁓ or doing a workshop that’s a part of a series and ongoing for an organization. We’re going to a professional association conference to either present research or facilitate workshops to help people develop. So all kinds of different things and different days take on different flavors.

Rob (04:52)
Lots of stuff going on that is for sure. And let’s actually shift gears for a second here. You know, we’d like to talk about fail or first attempts in learning. And especially because that those are the places where we learn the most because it’s the way in which games we learn so much. So let’s talk about one of those times. One of those, I don’t know if spectacular or not, but one of those when you would maybe call it your favorite failure, one of those times where something really went wrong and you learned

very interesting things for your future endeavors.

Joe Lasley (05:27)
Yeah, I like the way the acronym first attempt in learning because I wouldn’t consider this a failure. I would actually consider it success as a gamer and as a person who uses role playing games and the experience of role playing games as a lens through which to view what is leadership. I fully embraced that perspective. So I like that because I never would have considered this a failure. A couple of years ago, I did ⁓

a pilot program, which was a leadership coaching group using a role playing game. And it was actually more a role playing game trying to see how leadership coaching could emerge while I was facilitating the role playing game. We would set some intentions with the group, but I wanted to try it out. I’d already done a bunch of research and was continuing to do research and develop different ways to use the role playing game experience as a leadership development activity in and of itself.

which is little bit different than just, there’s some learning outcomes mixed in or gamification kinds of things. This was more, how can I make these experiences simultaneously kind of emerge here or try to foster that? And it was a huge success in the sense that I discovered, we discovered this really does work. It’s very deep psychological, like elements that are emerging when people are playing and we’re getting into some areas that are

huge blocks or areas of potential for people and ⁓ having deep insights, which is sometimes very uncomfortable, that kind of disequilibrium that is a precursor to transformational learning of realizing a blind spot or something like that. And for most of the participants, that was ⁓ very generative for them. For one of the participants, it was

an area of shadow that they had not been prepared to confront. And so it was a very intense and overwhelming experience in that aspect of the experience. So I learned, ⁓ hey, I was right. We can access some really foundational and transformational ⁓ elements of group dynamics and personal psychology. And in my role as a facilitator, because I was both the game master and the group

I have lots of training and experience as a group relations and leadership coach. I also have a lot of experience and ⁓ research and training as a game master. And so I thought I will be both of those roles in one. And man, even for me, that was ⁓ quite overwhelming amount of facilitation and things to pay attention to and…

psychological safety to create and all of those types of things. And so it was great in the sense that that was the foundation of, there was proof of concept. Like it really does work. Magic is real, you know, but also the responsibility and the psychological load on the facilitator of being in two roles at the same time was quite a lot. So it gave me respect for the process.

Rob (08:48)
I’ve heard this whole thing of taking on roles that you usually see them separate and there being reasons for them to be two separate people and people saying, know, I’m very good at these two. I’m done with myself. Don’t get me wrong. ⁓ And then actually going into it, know, full confidence, very prepared and so on and forth. And then it’s like, well.

Maybe there was a reason for there to be two people, even though the two people are doing the exact same thing, but they’re being actual two separate human beings doing that. Is that one of the lessons that you took away or did you manage to streamline this and to make it into a single role?

Joe Lasley (09:28)
The simple way to say the takeaway is, this dual role is a lot more than, and I had anticipated it being a big thing to pay attention to, but I was given an even double down, more expensive ⁓ experience at that. But I think the more nuanced thing is learning, I got a lot of the context and the complexity of what it is like to be in that role and different situations with different people and different types of.

leadership role-playing games, I call them the lead RPG, because it really is a combination of two things, or an integration. It’s not just adding one to the other. It’s its own thing when you combine them in a certain way. And so now there are some engagements that I do where we will have two facilitators. There will be a coach and a game master. And so then the flow from session zero to pre-work

to game session, to debrief and coaching ⁓ kind of works in tandem with those two roles. And there are other times where I will ⁓ be able to be intentional about how to play the dual role and how to set up the context for that to be successful, both for me as the facilitator and for the participants with what we’re trying to get out of it and how, you know, things like the length of the engagement, the type of relationships and then

also the type of intentions for how people want to learn and grow. If it’s about understanding some way that strengths combine on a team, that’s a little bit ⁓ easier to access from a dual role. If it’s more about trying to understand some unspoken dynamics that are beneath the surface, that might be a harder ask for a game master to be able to do at the same time.

Rob (11:20)
Interesting, interesting. So it’s not just one answer. It’s a set of things to learn. Interesting, I like it.

Joe Lasley (11:26)
respect

it enough to be very intentional about when and how to do the dual role and not. ⁓ Which is part of the leadership lesson I think in role playing games is understanding roles and how we play different roles and there are multiple ways to play different roles and having definitions about that.

Rob (11:46)
Good stuff, good stuff, for sure. And Joe, how about a success? know, time when, you know, rather than calling out the failure that happened, things actually did go your way. Again, the first, the end attempt, it doesn’t matter. We want to be there and see maybe some of those success factors, perhaps what took you to those heights.

Joe Lasley (12:07)
Well, we’ve had several retreats in the last year and we’re having another one come up in August. The deadline is June 10th for those who are ⁓ listening to this during that time sphere. ⁓

Rob (12:22)
2025 by the way. Yeah.

Joe Lasley (12:24)
Yeah,

2025, yes. There will be future programs, of course, but those aren’t set yet. And I would say that is a success that we bring together a core team to develop the method further beyond just what I was piloting and prototyping several years ago to now this is a collaborative effort. And I’ve got some people with really, really amazing combinations of expertise that have been able to

It transformed from we are collaborators to we are a team creating this together. We have a vision and a purpose to bring the power of role-playing games out into the world. And our retreats with ourselves as a team have been transformational for us, both individually and as a group. And that’s allowed us to really hone in on this method of how we can help people.

Whether it’s individuals coming to a retreat or teams of senior leaders at a company that hire us for an engagement that we can ⁓ really unlock something that’s more than gamification, that’s personal realization and also like team culture and group cultures, those types of things. So ⁓ we saw it work with ⁓ another client too, which was really fascinating because we thought we could do it.

but to actually change the culture in an organization over the long term, that’s a big ask for any leadership consultant. I think most of us will always promise that in our learning outcomes, Like, especially if you’re doing stuff with play, like build healthy team cultures and psychological safety. But we had a group last year that went through a three month program with us and we applied all the things that we had been learning and developing together. And to hear six months later,

a year later from the manager of that organization that their leadership team is still functioning differently because of the work that we did and that it has the dynamics that we cultivated together have now kind of ⁓ carried on and become the dynamics of how they work together. Like that’s the holy grail, I think. To have that actually work and have them see it and come to me with it, not just me tell them, I can see this happening. That was the real success.

Rob (14:50)
Big one for sure, good stuff. And from your experience, Joe, you you’ve been doing this for a while. You have a team, you have a method, et cetera. If you were, know, somebody comes in with a problem that you can solve through what you do. What are the steps? What’s the method? Of course, an overview. I’m sure there’s a lot of depth to this. But if we were to have sort of the taglines of all these things, what would that process, that thing be?

Joe Lasley (15:13)
Well, there’s a couple different ones. There are shorter series of workshops which are a little bit more ⁓ familiar to experiential learning and game-based learning folks where you focus on a particular outcome or type of outcome and then design specifically for that and make it all very experiential, give people a concrete experience to go off of. And so we have a way of developing our games and facilitation plans depending on the context for that.

For our larger programs, whether it’s a three month program where we meet every week or every other week with the team, or where we do a retreat, like a week and long retreat like we’re doing in ⁓ coming here and that, it’s interwoven with experiential learning and leadership coaching. ⁓ And then the gameplay process of pregame or session zero as a lot of people call it, actual game play and then

debriefing. And so the leadership coaching process that goes along with that is also an action learning process where you do reflection and intention setting and formation as a group. And so that’s some of the session zero ⁓ work that you would do or with a leadership coach where you might try to explore what are your aspirations and who you are now and how you’re trying to get there. What is it that you want to explore is kind of the general question. We do group coaching around that.

But that is accomplished partly through coaching conversations and partly through ⁓ actual session zero material. So we might talk about creating characters for a game or do some world building exercises together that both function to create game, get us ready for the game. ⁓ They create game material or characters or such, those types of things. But we facilitate them in such a way that they also help us build bonds, create our group.

formation and psychological safety with us as a group and some group norms around play and improv and consent and those types of things. So we accomplished both of those things in that first kind of phase of activities. And then the actual gameplay feels just like playing a role playing game, although we know there are multiple levels of the experience that are all happening at the same time. And so we may be paying attention to the characters and the way they’re showing up and helping each other play our characters.

and our roles in a way that suits our learning goals and intentions for leadership development. ⁓ Although it really looks and feels the same as playing any other RPG. And then the debrief where we have a structure for reflecting on that. So that’s kind of the process in a nutshell.

Rob (17:57)
Sounds brilliant. Thank you for giving us a sneak peek into your mind. And from that process in your experience, there some sort of best practice? Not a silver bullet, of course, but something that works really, really well, or usually at least improves your outcomes.

Joe Lasley (18:17)
Hmm.

I think some of the taglines out in the applied RPG world apply and maybe with a little bit of nuance. So Session Zero, everyone says, oh, you have to have Session Zero, which is this conversation you have before the game about what kind of game you’re going to be playing, what kind of experience you want to have, there are any limits, things that you don’t want to have happen. And there are a bunch of safety tools that can be talked about with that.

And those are all very useful and sometimes we will use those in different ways. And I think using, think for, to add our best practice to that, because I’m a group coach and a group relations and group dynamics, you know, development facilitator, that what we’re also doing is we’re creating norms for play and improv together that will serve us.

both in gameplay and in group coaching later on during a debrief. So we’re normalizing having conversations about consent, talking to each other about what is an uncomfortable learning zone for me and what is too uncomfortable and not a learning zone for me. And it’s not about knowing that before the game or knowing what’s going to happen, but normalizing how to talk about that and getting general ideas of how to support each other in the moment. And so that’s…

part of what we do and it could it ranges all the way from I love horror so let’s do a horror themed game or I really like you know fantasy and dragons and those kinds of things to you know deep personal things and I really want to work on this ⁓ aspect of my development and so it’s gonna be really uncomfortable for me this is all very new for me but here’s what support looks like from the group that you know so in the game

Other characters are invited to maybe present me with certain challenges or to not be able to do that. Or to say, pause, is this okay in game kind of thing? I think that’s a, realizing it’s very easy for people to separate in game, out of game in their minds, but that’s actually not real. We are, we are full people, even when we’re playing roles. And so there’s this combination of separation because you get to be a different character.

and you’re also having a real experience of a person playing that character, which is why we have these emotional experiences playing games that we thought at the time were more separate than they really are. And so it’s kind of a paradox in the work that we do. And I would say being able to attend to all of those levels and to merge back and forth is, ⁓ that’s the secret.

Rob (21:10)
Amazing, And after hearing these questions, you know, you were also recommended by a past guest. there somebody that you would recommend? Somebody would say, well, I’d be really curious to hear this person what they would have to say on an interview like this one, like on Professor Gay.

Joe Lasley (21:26)
Yeah, well, I have a whole list of people that I collaborate with. So of course I can’t, can’t name them all that I would name, but some of them have already been on the, on the podcast. One that I will say for now is Heiss. He is from Live Action Learning, operating in Europe. And they do the LARP version of what I do basically is the simple way, probably the oversimplified way to talk about it.

He and I are collaborating on a workshop and a panel at the International Leadership Association that will be in Prague in October. that’s our next collaboration, but he’s doing the LARP version of LeadRPG over it. He calls it live action learning. That’s his thing. So he’s very exciting and fun ⁓ to work with and to play with.

Rob (22:19)
Nice, very interesting, so heist.

Joe Lasley (22:22)
Yes, yeah, the website is liveactionlearning.com and heis is G-I-J-S.

Rob (22:35)
Gotcha, gotcha. And how about a book? Is there something maybe that guided you, inspired you, or that you read every now and then? I don’t know, whatever you want to go for. What would that book be and why?

Joe Lasley (22:46)
would say of the many books, especially the Transformational Role-Playing books and Role-Play Studies books, is that one that has really captured, I think, a core essence in my approach to this work is the book Playing and Reality by Donald Winnicott. It’s an oldie but a goodie. ⁓ And so he really captures some of the more complex concepts of thinking about play as a developmental phenomenon.

It’s not just the fun and whimsy that we think about it maybe in pop culture, but ⁓ his ideas about both human development and play are pretty foundational to the work that I do.

Rob (23:29)
Amazing, good stuff. And in this world of fusing games for leadership development or in general using games for purposes beyond entertainment, what would you say is your superpower? That thing that you do at least better than most others.

Joe Lasley (23:46)
I don’t know, I think you’d get a better answer asking other people, ⁓ that’s what my superpower was. But I can share an anecdote, because recently we’re doing a series of workshops for a professional organization. ⁓ some of my team members reflect, because of course, working with a team of leadership role playing game people, it’s kind of part of our culture to…

always be debriefing what’s going on and reflecting on our roles and those types of things. It’s kind of our hobby too, you know? And so we were debriefing some of the, well, we debriefed every session that we did, of course, as a team and they were ⁓ reflecting. We do, we debrief the debriefs. It’s, you know, it’s all the time. Yeah, it’s so fun. ⁓ And so.

Rob (24:28)
debrief the debriefings as well.

Joe Lasley (24:39)
This is actually, that’s what was happening. They were reflecting how I facilitated one of the debriefs at the workshop. there was a, you know, their note to me was ⁓ appreciation for how I was tying in a really complex concept and showing what people were saying about their experience and kind of helping put all the pieces together for them to

have a really important realization. And so I forget exactly how they described it, but the way of weaving what I was seeing and what they were reporting in their experience to help them make an insight. So I they said, I got up in front of room and all of a sudden I went into facilitator professor mode and just had the succinct question to ask or something like that.

Which doesn’t, it is not always that smooth, I will say, but that is the thing that amongst the, I was shocked by that comment and it may actually warms my heart to hear that from them because this is the group of people that are my team that I facilitate with that also ask me questions that make me think and rethink my perspectives. And so to have them reflect that to me was really, really sweet.

Rob (26:02)
Sounds great. Sounds great. And they’re the best place to get that kind of feedback. It’s not my cousin told me. The actual people you want to get that feedback.

Joe Lasley (26:07)
Yeah.

Yeah, the people that I respect for their ability to do debriefing, you know?

Rob (26:16)
And beyond, of course, your own leadership role-playing games, what would you say, Joe, is your favorite?

Joe Lasley (26:24)
Well, I think you know in asking that question on this podcast ⁓ that it’s a little bit of a red herring. That it’s right now my favorite game is or my favorite game of different genres are. So I’ll say I have lately been playing a ton of Age of Wonders 4, which is a video game. It’s a 4x fantasy game. And ⁓ I have been really enjoying that. 4x and fantasy games are both like a genre that I always have enjoyed. ⁓

And right now that one has been taking up a lot of my time to my delight. ⁓ So I’ll also say recently I played a game ⁓ called For the Queen. And that is a card-based storytelling game for a group. And it is so fun. And of course, I think the group that I played with made a big difference there because they were awesome to play with. ⁓

Rob (27:21)
Groups always do make a big difference in our experience, especially playing games. So there’s that.

Joe Lasley (27:28)
So those are two. How’s that?

Rob (27:31)
Joe, it’s been an absolute pleasure having you on the podcast. I don’t know if there’s anything else you want to talk about. Is there any final piece of advice, call to action? I don’t know, whatever you want to go for. Of course, do let us know where we can find out more about you, about the work that you do. ⁓ Off the retreat for sure, and especially where they see it a few days right after or a year after, where they can find out more about your ongoing work in that sense.

Joe Lasley (27:54)
Yeah, hopefully we’ll have many more programs to come. So finding us on our website, gamenamic.org is the main website. ⁓ When we have a retreat running, it’s gamenamic.org slash retreat. But more specifically, there’s always gamenamic.org slash lead RPG. All our tabs on the site, if you just go to gamenamic.org, you’ll find your way around. You’ll be able to join an email list there at the bottom of the main page. ⁓ And you can…

Also find ways to get in contact with me. My email there is drjoe at game namek.org. There you can schedule a 30 minute console intro consultation through the website. ⁓ I have a LinkedIn profile, Dr. Joe Lassley and game namek leadership has a LinkedIn profile as well. And so there’s a great ways to stay in touch with what we’re doing ⁓ and either sign up for the current or next best retreat or get in contact about

⁓ creating an event or opportunity for us to engage together.

Rob (28:57)
Absolutely, absolutely. I’m sure anybody in that space would be super interested in the stuff that you guys are doing and that seems super super interesting and very impactful as well But Joe even the best things come to an end so Engagers and Joe at least for now and for today. It is time to say that it’s game over Hey, Engagers, and thank you for listening to the professor game

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